Extreme Reactions

I have always wondered, what is it that prompts us to sometime react in an uncontrollably unguarded and violent manner to certain events and people. What is about certain people that brings out the worst instincts in even the best of us? Or is the problem with us and not with them. There are a few possibilities. Often such extreme feelings are inspired by perceived notions of betrayal, indifference, neglect and at times being used by other people to fulfill their interests. We cannot forget that it must been us who allowed them the opportunity to fiddle with our emotions. By providing them the power to govern our happiness, we have been squarely to blame. In such an event we know that we are responsible for our plight. This often leaves us with no option of expressing our angst but by indulging in a virulent tirade against those who we feel have wronged us. Another reason why people react disparagingly, is strangely as a means to divert attention from certain real issues. In such cases, the expressions of hate and distaste may be interpreted to portend quite the opposite. I strongly believe such deception has been practiced by many naive individuals, who think the world will be taken in by their clever ploy, but such dissimulation often may result in unnecessary heartache. A third possibility is that we genuinely dislike and despise certain people, but more often than not, we will not openly express our feelings on such an occasion,
So folks if you ever find yourself reacting unreasonably, question yourself honestly, there may be certain issues lurking behind which you would do better to resolve at the earliest,
Well so long,
Have a nice time,
Nandini